Trust Issues

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Posted by geemiz | Posted in Geemiz Thoughts | Posted on 22-11-2010

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It’s been a long time since I have planned to add something in this virtual journal of mine and I think this is the day. I have been scribbling for a time now and I always ended up deleting what I have written. Until I realized that I feel different today.

As much as I wanted to be okay, it just won’t work. You may say that it is just in my head and your right and not. Of course my brain is in my head and at the same time I felt it. My breathing is not normal, I cannot just focus and I feel a needle like pinching my heart. I hope this is not any some kind of a heart failure which is common to our family, God forbids. This is just maybe a cause of an ungrateful thought or happening that I hope will soon be over.

Let’s forget about the dramas, I wanted to share with you about a certain word which I have encountered more than a couple of times.

The word is “la confianza” in Spanish, “feducia” in French, and “usko luottamuksen” in Finnish. Those three words above means only one in English and it is “TRUST”. The simplest meaning I have found in the web for the word trust is “have confidence” or “have faith in” Self exclamatory right? The word is just so easy to say, quiet easy to do but is so hard to give and definitely strongly hard to earned.

You can easily say to a person I trust you but you do not tell him everything. You do not give him a chance to know everything you are up to. The hardest part about trust is that when you give it to someone that you think do not deserves it and when you feel that no one trusts you.

Everyone knows that trust is important because if we have it then we will never be alone. Some of you may ask, when is trust the most important? If you would ask me my answer would be, trust is important the most in every relationship because as what George MacDonald has said “To be trusted is a greater compliment than being love”. Love is useless if there is no trust between persons being in loved, because how can a person love someone if that person has no faith in his partner. It is just like your telling your friend how good he can dance when in fact you do not like him dancing.

Trust also is one of the most fragile things here on earth that once broken it is so hard for it to mend. According to a famous quote “Trust is like a vase, once broken though it can be fix it will never be the same again.” So better keep the trust a person gives you and start it by trusting yourself above all because once you learn how to trust yourself then it will be just easy to trust others.

Meet geemiz


Geezelle Maningo - A Cebu based travel blogger and the other half of GeeMiz Travel blog. She has been traveling around the Philippines and Asia since 2010 with her husband. A casual trekker/hiker since 2017 and has been blogging since 2008. A digital marketer during workdays and a bookworm on lazy days - she co-founded Cebu Book Club.

Comments (2)

Hey Tiff- Just read through your blog hsrtoiy thank you. Reminds me why I always hope you are in my life. You have great stuff to say. You are inspiring make me want to be a better person, wife, mom- better for my kids. The example they can get at home, regardless of the world around them. Hope we get to spend some time together soon!Hugs to you and your men (Scott and Will). Love from the desert. Michele and gang. P.S. I can’t wait to read Twilight- right now I am reading the Harry Potter series with Michael. we are both on Book 4, (we are both WAY into it!) I am having SO MUCH FUN reading with him! When I am done I think I will pick up Twilight. Michele

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